Forget Missing A Loved One to Connect with Them in Spirit

 Gary Zukav - Jan 5, 2023

 

My dear Spiritual Partner,

 

Since Linda’s soul returned home to nonphysical reality, our nonphysical Teachers have patiently mentored me toward an ability to cocreate with her. For example,

"You are like a man who has just been given sight trying to determine what your new experiences are, and how they can be helpful or useful.

Imagine a seed, still small, still within the Earth, that carries in it a potential that is far beyond what can yet be seen or guessed. That is where you are.

Your communications with Linda will deepen into a more meaningful and substantive form and content.

Do not think that you can imagine what lies before you or the joy and fulfillment of it."

and

"You can speak with Linda now, although those experiences will be replaced with others that are more satisfying to you."

 

I asked our Teacher, When will this begin?

 

"When you begin to relax into your life and enjoy it."

That is what I can’t do while I am missing Linda! I said in frustration.

"That is the point."

 

Then I should forget missing Linda and just “enjoy myself”? I asked rhetorically.

 

"Yes, however, that does not mean forgetting Linda. You will never do that. It means letting go of the illusory experiences of safety and comfort that frightened parts of your personality associate with Linda’s physical presence."

 

This answer jolted and confused me.

How could forgetting missing Linda help me cocreate with Linda?

Yet I realized that I did feel more safe and comfortable while Linda was with me in the Earth school, and vulnerable, lost, and alone after her soul left it.

If forgetting missing Linda was necessary to cocreate with her, I decided with all my will to forget missing Linda, although I had no idea how to do that, and it did not feel possible.

Beloved, I told her, I am going to forget missing you.

To my relief and great surprise she said: 

 

At last.

Is that OK with you? I needed to know that I heard correctly.

 

It is more than OK. It is fulfilling. It is thrilling. Your love will bloom. It will be everywhere. We will cocreate in joy. There is no need for missing me. That serves no purpose. We have things to do, and all of them are joyful.

Begin now, my Beloved. Enjoy not missing me. Enjoy it. Relish it. Savor it. Bask in it. Bask in not needing anything but love, but our Teachers, but your soul, but your ability to create authentic power.

I will join you. That is where we will join, not when.

Your joy comes not with our love. Our love is. It always will be.

Joy comes from recognizing that. It comes in knowing that. Our love is constant, like the sun in the Earth school. It is always there. Clouds obscure it. Fear obscures it, and you miss the incarnation that I was. Let them scatter. Scatter them with your joy, with your experience of our love, with what it actually is – much more, bigger, fuller, deeper than we imagined, but we felt it, didn’t we?

Allow yourself to feel it now. Now. Now. Forget about missing me. Forget about it forever, because I am here with you forever.

 

Have you ever felt that something important for you to do was impossible when a thought, or a word in a book, or a conversation opened a new vista for you, and what seemed impossible became attractive, exiting, and fulfilling?

The Universe gave you an experience of grace. It provided exactly what you needed to transform an experience of a frightened part of your personality (fear and doubt) into an experience of a loving part of your personality (love and trust).

What seemed impossible for you to do, what opened your new vista, and what did you do after you saw it?

 

Please let me know below.

Here is a video of Linda sharing about grace and how she uses it.

What insights came to you about yourself and grace from listening to her?

Linda joins me in sending you love.

 

Love,

Gary

 

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Connecting to those in the afterlife has been GREAT BIG HUGE for me. 
I am so amazed and shocked at how LETTING GO is the way for
those in spirit to GET THROUGH.   

Gary Zukav - Author of Seat of The Soul. 

 

A Field of Roses

 

 

January 13, 2012 - posted on Facebook.....

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"A Field of Roses"

Walking in the Garden of Souls by George Anderson.

 Today, I found this on his web site ..........

 A Field of Roses      by George Anderson

 

A dear friend called me one morning to tell me about the dream he had of his father, who had passed on suddenly a few months before. He told me that in his dream, his father met him, and the walked and talked amid beautiful fields under a warm, sunny sky. As they walked, they passed an unusual field of white roses. What my friend found unusual about the field was that each white rose stood alone on a single stem, and each had a ribbon around it. They covered the field by the thousands and looked to be untouched by human hands, yet they grew perfectly.

In his dream, my friend asked his father about the unusual field of roses, and why each had a ribbon around it. His father explained to him that each rose was a gift, sent to the earth, that was never received. So the roses stand, each with its ribbon, to be given to the soul upon their return to the hereafter. My friend didn't understand, so he pressed his father further, and the story he was told is one that I have heard many times from the souls who communicate to their families on the earth.

Each of us, in our lifetime on the earth, is sent many gifts from the hereafter. Some are the gift of laughter when things are bleak, others are the gift of friendship for the lonely. Some are even true love for those who walk the earth in search of it. These gifts are sent to us to help encourage us on our journey, and to take the sometimes rough edges off a difficult time we experience, or a heartache we endure. So what are they doing, standing in rows like soldiers, in the hereafter? They were gifts unopened by us--ignored for some reason, passed by, uncollected, and returned to the hereafter so that we have them when we understand their value.

My friend's dream is not unusual--the souls have told me many times that we are showered with things from the hereafter to make our lives a little easier, but because of fear, distrust, or sometimes plain stubbornness, we are unable to see these gifts for what they truly are. Worse--we acknowledge they are gifts, but somehow feel we are not entitled to them or unworthy. Many of us are in stages of our lives where we do not trust people or circumstances enough to take a chance, fearing we will be worse off than when we started.

The souls have a very simple message to the earth which they have stated over and over--gifts come to us because they are meant to. There is no need to question why or how--gifts are not planned, but they correspond to circumstances in our lives the same way friends remember a birthday with a gift. People who wander into our lives when we need a friend is a special gift, although many are turned away out of fear or distrust. Opportunities for good things to happen come and go because we think too much about them. But nothing given to us is ever lost--even though it was sorely needed by us on the earth and we still did not accept it, these gifts return to the hereafter, and wait for us to cross over and understand why they were sent in the first place. It is the very point, however, that we no longer need them. So they return to the hereafter, objects of kindness and love, and grow like beautiful roses in a field of white.

I have said many times throughout the years that bereavement is a bonfire of the vanities--it is a point where we hit the bottom of our emotional, physical and philosophical barrel. This is exactly the time that we need to look around us and grab hold of whatever can keep us from disappearing into the black hole of grief. If you are bereaved, or alone, or unhappy in a place on your journey, then look around you--the gifts may not be obvious but they are there. Dont just accept them, grab them and hang on to them--they were meant to save your hope and help your soul. And they are meant for you. Accept whatever comes your way with the knowledge that somebody, whether it is here or hereafter, is concerned for you and values you. All you are required to do is say "thank you."

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Grandma, how do you cope with pain?

 

 

 

“Grandma, how do you cope with pain?”

“With your hands, honey. If you do it with your mind instead of relieving the pain, it toughens even harder.”

“With your hands grandma?”

“Yes, our hands are the antennae of our soul. If you move them; knitting, cooking, painting, playing or sinking them into the ground, you send care signs to the deepest part of you and your soul lights up because you’re paying attention to it. Then signs of pain will no longer be necessary.”

“Hands are really that important?”

“Yes my daughter. Think of babies: they start to know the world through the touch of their hands. If you look at the hands of old people, they tell you more about their life then any body part. Everything that is done by hand is said to be done with the heart. Because it’s really like this: hands and heart are connected. Masseurs know well: when they touch someone with their hands, they create a deep connection. It is precisely from this connection that healing comes. Think of lovers: when they touch their hands, they make love in a more sublime way.”

“My hands grandma.... how long I haven’t used them like this!”

“Move them, my love. Begin to create with them and everything within you will begin to move. The pain will not pass away. And instead what you do with them will become the most beautiful masterpiece and it won’t hurt anymore. Because you have been able to transform its essence..

 

~Elena Bernabe ~

 

Artist Credit : Claudia Tremblay