~ Damian ~

I’ve started this post several times.    Trashed what I had

written and started again and again………

Plain and direct:

Damian – You are missed. !!!

 

Please check in !

11:11

Okay...... I see them -

~ Number Prompts ~

Do you see them too ?

I interpret them as stay awake nudges
from my angels.

11:11 is my most frequent prompt,
but I also see 4:44 too.   It's not as often as 11:11

Link to   11:11  Candle Site

~Live~ And Let Their Light Shine

Over time the life moments that we build with that person become

committed to both of our memories.    If we are apart from them for

a time, when we see them again, we can go back and visit the past.

Through our shared conversations we recall our lives together.

Thoughts of summer days, past holidays, vacation travel,

or even mundane everyday activities are exchanged.   That person

has their memories and you share the same memory,

even though your memory of the time spent together might differ slightly.

When families or friends gather together, not only do we share

what is going on now, we share future plans and happily re-visit past times.

In the death of someone you love there is no more hearing

them speak.    Gone is the ability to reminisce and travel in thought

together.   A part of you dies.    It’s like a piece of your heart has been

chipped off and actually withers away.

For a time, a part of you just wants to be done with this living and

join them.   Your passed over loved one or friend is in spirit standing

behind you ready to kick your ass and say LIVE !!!

IF you could hear them speak these would be their words to you …..

“Not only do you hold MY memories,

you also hold ~ MY SPIRIT ~ in your heart.   

Get out in this world and honor me and LIVE in my name."   

Today, May 24, 2007

I am not just sitting here at my computertrying to conjure up some sappy, blog post.   

I am explaining my life to you. !

My very dear friend Cindy died in July of 2001.   

Although I had faced the death of loved ones prior to Cindy’s passing,

it was Cindy’s death that prompted me to live my life with HER

in my heart and to LIVE my life in her name. 

In this way, the love never really dies, it’s only changed and

in a different form.

Death has touched me  deeply in the past several years…..

My father in law – Mario, Aunt Edna, Aunt Mary, Great Gram Smith,

Mr &; Mrs O, Larry, Military kids, Lance, Danny, Michael, Dustin,

Luke and many more military.  My neighbor Bill ; his dtr Becky,

Mr. Ferritto, Cousin Carmie, an online friend Suzie and Greta,
Amber's Mom Jane.

They are all in my heart and  one day when

I cross over I will be engulfed and showered in their

love as they welcome me *home*.

I know you have your own dear and loved ones now crossed over.

~ Live ~ and let their light shine with yours.

               ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

*Dedicated to my friend Antoinette*

Her dear Hubby Larry passed November 10, 2006

Antoinette and I spent the day together yesterday.

It was the time shared with 'Ann' yesterday that brought

this post to life today.

I LOVE you Antoinette.

   

Photo From All Saint's Cemetery. Northfield OHIO 5/23/07

Angel watching over the babies

In Memory of Crossed Over Loved Ones