Dad passed November 5, 2009. Up until the Spring of last year, at 78 years old, Dad had been working as a WalMart greeter. A position he held for 14 years since his retirement from grocery store retail management. He worked approximately 35-38 hours a week. In April Dad had some ischemic strokes, other wise referred to as mini strokes. He was hospitalized, but released. He was doing out patient therapy. He was not majorly impaired from the strokes. In July he fell and broke 5 ribs. He never returned home after that fall.The day after Dad's burial on November 11th, I just felt the need to go to the cemetery. I don't particularly have an attachment to cemeteries, as I feel the soul-spirit does not reside there, still something drew me to plan to go there that day. My drive to the cemetery is under 20 minutes. On the way there, I had intended to stop at a local religious store. The morning had gotten away from me and time was running short for Kevin to be home from school. I knew he had not taken his house key that morning, so I had a specific time to be home. As I back out of my drive, I decided to nix the religious store and just go on to his grave site.While driving down the street where I would pass by the religious store I had a BOOMING message.....
Not being one to ignore biggie messages like that, I figured ... OKAY, I better stop. :)I walked into the store intending to walk back to the area where some pocket coins are kept. As soon as I walked in the door, from my peripheral vision on my right side, I saw a woman at the cashier's desk. I did not actually turn to view her, but instantly I heard her voice and then stopped. As I stopped to look her way, she also looked towards me. It was Lynn, a RN who had taken care of Dad at a local hospital during one of his many stays that past year. Lynn was no ordinary RN. She really bonded with Dad. Even so much as coming to the nursing home to visit him there. In the last few weeks of Dad's life, the frustration of his bodily limitations had taken a great toll on him. He was not really up for some visitors. Lynn had sensed that on her last trip to see Dad, and she had decided it was best not to drop in on him.
Still, Mom had kept in touch with her by phone. After Dad's passing we had not gotten Lynn notified. She walked up to me with a huge smile and arms extended for a hug.
She then said........ 'How's your Dad doing' ? I informed her that we had just buried him the day before. She was visibly shaken and upset to tears at the news. Lynn and Dad had shared their faith with one another, and after his months of suffering, I explained we were at peace with his passing.
These pocket coins that I was there to pick up that day are ones that I keep giving away to folks I meet who seem to be in need of something to uplift them.
I knew exactly WHY I was led to the store that day. The timing is out of this world.
The key is listening and acting on the messages that come to you. :)
NOW.......... I have a story about the same religious store after Mom passed in February.
I'm going to make a second post about that one.
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Listening to these messages is really important.
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