~ Watch Your Thoughts ~

I have my friend Drew to thank for the inspiration for this piece.   
Drew sent out this message on his Facebook page this morning....

Is going to have one of "those" weeks and is in need of prayers and smiles!

My comment response to Drew .....

I will gladly send prayers and smiles, but ~YOU~ must put out some

positive vibes and not attempt to define your entire week
on Monday
before you have even LIVED IT. ;)

He replied.....

Yes Ma'am...

Drew..... Bless your heart for the MANY years we've known one another. 
It's a darn good thing you will be trying to take this advice.  
Spoken like a BIG SIS...   Huh  ?

~ LOVE YA ~  !!!!!

~ Maturity ~

Maturity is many things.

It is the ability to base a judgment on the big picture, the long haul.

It means being able to resist the urge for immediate gratification and opt for the courseof action that will pay off later.

One of the characteristics of the young is "I want it now. "Grown-up people can wait.

Maturity is perseverance -- the ability to sweat out a project or a situation in spite

of heavy opposition and discouraging setbacks, and stuck with it until it is finished.

The adult who is constantly changing jobs, changing friends and changing mates is immature.

He cannot stick it out because he has not grown up.

Maturity is the ability to control anger and settle the differences without violence or destruction.

The
mature person can face unpleasantness, frustration, discomfort and
defeat without collapsing or complaining.
He knows he can't have
everything his own way every time. He is able to defer to
circumstances, to other people -- and to time. He knows when to
compromise and is not too proud to do it.

Maturity is
humility.  It is being big enough to say, "I was wrong." And when he is
right, the mature person need not experience the satisfaction of
saying, "I told you so."

Maturity is the ability to
live up to your responsibilities, and this means being dependable.

It
means keeping your word.

Dependability is the hallmark of integrity.

Do
you mean what you say -- and do you say what you mean?

Unfortunately,
the world is filled with people who can't be counted on.
When you need
them most, they are among the missing. They never seem to come through
in the clutches. They break promises and substitute alibis for
performance.
They show up late or not at all. They are confused and
disorganized.
Their lives are a chaotic maze of broken promises, former
friends, unfinished business and good intentions that somehow never
materialize. They are always a day late and a dollar short.

Maturity
is the ability to make a decision and stand by it.

Immature people
spend their lives exploring endless possibilities and then do nothing.


Action requires courage.  Without courage, little is accomplished.

Maturity
is the ability to harness your abilities and your energies and do more
than is expected.

The mature person refuses to settle for mediocrity.
He would rather aim high and miss the mark than aim low -- and make it.

Maturity
is the art of living in peace with that which we cannot change, the
courage to change that which should be changed, no matter what it
takes, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Ann Landers